July 11, 2021

  • Naptime Multitasker

    Actually sick with something and can't stay awake but can't stop running either. Graaamma got her first jab yesterday.

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July 8, 2021

July 4, 2021

  • Modeling her new dress at the research library. I also planted some morning glory seeds, as last year's crop is not coming up at all.

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    Another finished project finished - ceramic head on a wooden body.

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June 6, 2021

  • Who Shook the Jar?

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    If you collect 100 black ants and 100 fire ants and put them in a glass jar, nothing will happen.
    But if you take the jar, shake it violently and leave it on the table, the ants will start killing each other.
    Red believes that black is the enemy, while black believes that red is the enemy, when the real enemy is the person who shook the jar.
    The same is true in society.
    Men vs Women
    Black vs White
    Faith vs Science
    Young vs Old
    Etc ...
    Before we fight each other, we must ask ourselves:
    Who shook the jar?

    ~David Attenborough~

May 16, 2021

  • First Aid!

    My foot sprained itself, but Grand Dotter took care of it.

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May 11, 2021

  • Life in Smartphones - From the Guardian

    Smartphone users have become “human snails carrying our homes in our pockets”, with a tendency to ignore friends and family in favour of their device, according to a landmark.

    A team of anthropologists from UCL spent more than a year documenting smartphone use in nine countries around the world, from Ireland to Cameroon, and found that far from being trivial toys, people felt the same way about their devices as they did about their homes.

    “The smartphone is no longer just a device that we use, it’s become the place where we live,” said Prof Daniel Miller, who led the study. “The flip side of that for human relationships is that at any point, whether over a meal, a meeting or other shared activity, a person we’re with can just disappear, having ‘gone home’ to their smartphone.”

    This phenomenon was leading to the “death of proximity” when it comes to face-to-face interaction, he said.

    “This behavior, and the frustration, disappointment or even offence it can cause, is what we’re calling the ‘death of proximity’. We are learning to live with the jeopardy that even when we are physically together, we can be socially, emotionally or professionally alone.”

    If there’s one specific cause for that transformation, the researchers suggest it may be chat apps such as WhatsApp, which they call the “heart of the smartphone”. “For many users across most regions, a single app now represents the most important thing that the smartphone does for them” – LINE in Japan, for instance, WeChat in China, and WhatsApp in Brazil.

    “These apps are the platforms where siblings come together to take care of elderly parents, proud parents send out endless photographs of their babies, and migrants reconnect with families; they are the means by which you can still be a grandparent even if living in another country.”

    Unlike many explorations of smartphone use, the study specifically focused on older adults, “those who consider themselves neither young nor elderly”.

    “At first an emphasis upon older people may appear strange because we have become so used to concentrating upon youth, once thought the natural users of smartphones,” the researchers wrote, “however, a focus upon older people has helped to extract the study of smartphones from any specific demographic niche so that they may be considered as the possession of humanity as a whole.”

    Even with that distinct focus, the researchers find that around the world smartphones are basic necessities. “The smartphone is perhaps the first object to challenge the house itself (and possibly also the workplace) in terms of the amount of time we dwell in it while awake,” they conclude, coining the term “transportal home” to describe the effect. “We are always ‘at home’ in our smartphone. We have become human snails carrying our home in our pockets.”

    The researchers also describe how this “home” can be far from being a place of respite, with work communications and social media both having the potential to encroach.

    They observe: “In other ways, the smartphone may reduce the prior experience of home as a refuge. Employees may now be expected to remain in contact with their work, for instance, even after leaving the workplace. A child bullied by other pupils at school now finds little or no respite through coming back to her or his home.”

    But Miller cautioned against an overly negative view. “The smartphone is helping us create and recreate a vast range of helpful behaviors, from re-establishing extended families to creating new spaces for healthcare and political debate,” he said. It is only by looking at the vastly different uses and contexts that we can fully understand the consequences of smartphones for people’s lives around the world.”

May 8, 2021

  • Those who sow in tears....

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    THOSE WHO SOW IN TEARS....
    In 1921 David and Svea Flood went with their two-year-old son from Sweden to the heart of Africa, to what was then called the Belgian Congo. This missionary couple met up with the Ericksons, another young Scandinavian couple, and the four of them sought God for direction. In those days of much devotion and sacrifice, they felt led of the Lord to set out from the main mission station to take the gospel to the village of N’dolera, a remote area.
    This was a huge step of faith.
    There, they were rebuffed by the chief, who would not let them enter his town for fear of alienating the local gods. The two couples opted to build their own mud huts half a mile up the slope.
    They prayed for a spiritual breakthrough, but there was none. Their only contact with the villagers was a young boy, who was allowed to sell them chickens and eggs twice a week.
    Svea Flood—a tiny woman only four feet, eight inches tall—decided that if this was the only African she could talk to, she would try to lead the boy to Jesus. And she succeeded!
    Meanwhile, malaria struck one member of the little missionary band after another. In time, the Ericksons decided they had had enough suffering and left to return to the central mission station.
    David and Svea Flood remained near N’dolera to carry on alone.
    Then, Svea found herself pregnant in the middle of the primitive wilderness. When the time came for her to give birth, the village chief softened enough to allow a midwife to help her. A little girl was born, whom they named Aina. The delivery was exhausting. Svea Flood was already weak from bouts of malaria so the birthing process was a heavy blow to her stamina. She died only 17 days after Aina was born.
    Something snapped Inside David Flood at that moment. He dug a crude grave, buried his 27-year-old wife, and then went back down the mountain with his children to the mission station.
    Giving baby Aina to the Ericksons, he snarled, “I’m going back to Sweden. I’ve lost my wife, and I obviously can’t take care of this baby. God has ruined my life!”
    With that, he headed for the port, rejecting not only his calling, but God Himself.
    Within eight months, both the Ericksons were stricken with a mysterious malady and died within days of each other. Baby Aina was then turned over to another American missionary family who changed her Swedish name to “Aggie”. Eventually they took her back to the United States at age three.
    This family loved Aggie. Afraid that if they tried to return to Africa some legal obstacle might separate her from them, they decided to stay in their home country and switch from missionary work to pastoral ministry. That is how Aggie grew up in South Dakota.
    As a young woman, she attended North Central Bible College in Minneapolis. There she met and married Dewey Hurst.
    Years passed. The Hursts enjoyed a fruitful ministry. Aggie gave birth first to a daughter, then a son. In time, her husband became president of a Christian college in the Seattle area, and Aggie was intrigued to find so much Scandinavian heritage there.
    One day she found a Swedish religious magazine in their mailbox. She had no idea who had sent it, and of course she couldn’t read the words, but as she turned the pages, a photo suddenly stopped her cold.
    There, in a primitive setting, was a grave with a white cross—and on the cross were the words SVEA FLOOD.
    Aggie got in her car and drove straight to a college faculty member whom she knew could translate the article.
    “What does this article say?”
    The teacher shared a summary of the story.
    "It is about missionaries who went to N’dolera, Africa, long ago. A baby was born. The young mother died. One little African boy was led to Jesus before that. After the whites had all left, the boy all grown up finally persuaded the chief to let him build a school in the village. He gradually won all his students to Christ and the children led their parents to Him. Even the chief became a follower of Jesus! Today there are six hundred believers in that village, all because of the sacrifice of David and Svea Flood."
    Aggie was elated!
    For the Hursts’ 25th wedding anniversary, the college presented them with the gift of a vacation to Sweden.
    Aggie sought out her birth father.
    David Flood was an old man now. He had remarried, fathered four more children, and generally dissipated his life with alcohol. He had recently suffered a stroke. Still bitter, he had one rule in his family: “Never mention the name of God! God took everything from me!”
    After an emotional reunion with her half-brothers and half-sister, Aggie brought up the subject of her longing to see her father. They hesitated....
    “You can talk to him, but he’s very ill now. You need to know that whenever he hears the name of God, he flies into a rage.”
    Aggie walked into the squalid apartment, which had liquor bottles strewn everywhere, and slowly approached her 73-year-old father lying in a rumpled bed.
    “Papa,” she said tentatively.
    He turned and began to cry.
    “Aina!"
    "I never meant to give you away!”
    “It’s all right, Papa,” she replied, taking him gently in her arms.
    “God took good care of me.”
    Her father instantly stiffened and his tears stopped.
    “God forgot all of us. Our lives have been like this because of Him.”
    He turned his face back to the wall.
    Aggie stroked his face and then continued, undaunted.
    “Papa, I’ve got a marvelous story to tell you!"
    "You didn’t go to Africa in vain. Mama didn’t die in vain. The little boy you won to the Lord grew up to win that whole village to Jesus! The one seed you planted in his heart kept growing and growing! Today there are 600 people serving the Lord because you were faithful to the call of God in your life!"
    "Papa, Jesus loves you. He has never hated you or abandoned us.”
    The old father turned back to look into his daughter’s eyes. His body relaxed.
    He slowly began to talk.
    And by the end of the afternoon, he had come back to the God he had resented for so many years. Over the next few days, father and daughter enjoyed warm moments together. A few weeks after Aggie and her husband returned to America, David Flood died.
    And a few years later....
    Aggie and her husband were attending an evangelism conference in London, England, when a report was given from Zaire (the former Belgian Congo).
    The superintendent of the national church, representing some 110,000 baptized believers, spoke eloquently of the Gospel’s spread in his nation.
    Aggie could not help going to ask him afterward if he had ever heard of David and Svea Flood.
    “Yes, madam,” the man replied in French, his words being translated into English.
    “Svea Flood led me to Jesus Christ! I was the boy who brought food to your parents before you were born. In fact, to this day, your mother’s grave and her memory are honored by all of us.”
    He embraced Aggie for a long time, sobbing.
    “You must come to Zaire! Your mother is the most famous and honored person in our history.”
    When Aggie and her husband went to N’dolera, they were welcomed by cheering throngs of villagers. Aggie even met the man who had been hired by her father to carry her down the mountain in a hammock-cradle.
    Then the pastor escorted Aggie to see her mother’s tomb with a white cross bearing her name. She knelt in the soil to pray and give thanks to God.
    Later that day, in the church, the boy turned pastor read....
    “I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” John 12:24
    “Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.” Psalm 126:5
    Read more:
    https://www.epm.org/.../Feb/18/story-eternal-perspective/

May 7, 2021

  • One year later and it still hasn't gotten there!

    From one year ago - Super cows in my Mother's Day road - A few years ago I had a dream that my life depended on being able to navigate a rural road and take off in a small plane. Just as I attempted to get up enough speed, some idiot herded a bunch of cows onto the road, It was a decision to either suspend take-off or wreck my plane producing hamburger At that point I woke up, but the dream was quite memorable.
    St. Mother's Day is coming up this weekend, and my plane is totally kaput. I saw a lovely sample card in the store and asked a clerk for one because there were none actually for sale. She looked in a drawer under the counter and found one which I promptly purchased. Somehow my bag felt flimsy and I found out that I only had an empty envelope, the one that belonged to the sample. OK, just sell me the sample and I can remove the price tag myself.
    Then Golden Week holidays happened and the Post Office was closed for five days. I knew the card would be late, so I tried sending a Barnes & Noble Nook gift card that would be deliverable by timely email, but no, they would not accept an order from a foreign address.
    Ok, so let's send an equivalent amount of cash with the card that will be late. The Corona Virus has all of the Post Offices closing at 3:00 pm, so trotted my self over there so as to be in time and stand in the long socially distanced line, only to be told that there is no Air Mail going to the US at this time and the only way to send the card was by sea.. MOOOOOOOOO.

April 28, 2021

  • Operator's Manual for Kidz

    A pediatric therapist, with more than 30 years of experience, came up with a list of what she believes kids need and don’t need.
    What our children don’t need:
    1. Cell phones when they’re in grade school. Over the years, I cannot tell you one good thing that can come from this.
    2. Unlimited access to social media. There is very little that is healthy on social media for children and it is getting worse.
    3. So many toys that they can’t even think of something to want at birthday or holiday times. Too much of anything leaves children unable to be full. They become like buckets with holes in them.
    4. Televisions in their rooms. Rooms are for sleeping. Good sleep hygiene is a dying art for too many children.
    5. To be able to control the emotional climate of the home. Moody kids should not be allowed to hold the whole house hostage. If a child wants to be moody, he can go to his room and be moody by himself. Everyone else need not suffer.
    6. Too much indoor time. Our kids have become hermits with social media and high tech games. It is ruining their social skills. It’s also taking a toll on their physical well-being.
    7. Too many activities outside of school. No wonder this generation is so anxiety-ridden. They are overloaded. If we want to teach them to take care of themselves as they age, we must teach them to do that by our example and by limiting their extracurricular activities. Scripture even recognizes the need to rest.
    8. To be able to disrespect any authority. Even authority that you as a parent dislike or the child dislikes should still be respected. There will always be an authority in your child’s life even when your child is 50.
    9. To always call the shots. Children who get to always choose where to eat, where to play, and what the family does end up being brats.
    10. Constant approval and pats on the back. You will not always be around to do this. Children need to learn to be proud of themselves when they do something good whether anyone tells them or not.
    What our children do need:
    I. Rest. They play hard. Their bodies need rest to grow and develop.
    2. Uninterrupted family time. The most important people to a child are those under the same roof. Make family time purposeful and protected.
    3. Outdoor play time where they can explore and create. All kids need free time to imagine.
    4. Rules and expectations. Be clear. Be concise. And don’t be afraid to give them.
    5. Consistent discipline. If a rule is broken, a child needs to know what to expect. All fear is not a bad thing. There is a fear that can represent respect.
    6. Parents who love them and love each other. Security begins here.
    7. For you as a parent to say “no” sometimes. Your child does not need a lollipop or a new shirt every time you go to Walmart.
    8. Hugs. Physical touch affects the development of children.
    9. The ability to share their feelings about anything as long as they are respectful.
    10. The most precious gift that a parent can give any child is to demonstrate a personal relationship with God and consistently teach that child through your actions what having faith in God really means. In the toughest times of their lives, they will learn in large part to rely on God by the example you display for them.

April 24, 2021

  • Spa Day

    Today's fun - The girls had another spa day, this time at Gokuraku-yu in Tama Center. It was less expensive than the last place we went to in Nagayama. Upon entering is a red wine colored bath where all the ladeez can have a group soak. Thinking of it as anything but a wine colored hot tub fills one's mind with grotesque images, so let's just leave it at that. LOL
    There were also jet baths and outdoor pools. Mommy went in to a sauna, so I watched Haru in the outdoor pool. A lady came in to join us and H remarked that she had a belly as big as mine. I know she was just trying to pay the lady a compliment, but... Some compliments are just better unmade.
    After we were thoroughly clean and soaked to pruneship, Haru found that it was interesting to collect all of the keys from the vacant lockers, which sounds like something that her Uncle B would have done at the same age. (Reminds me of the time he tried to unlock a door with a toothpick and broke it off short enough that I was glad that I happened to have a needle to dig it out of the keyhole.)
    It was a fun day.